I ask this question to my students along with, “What do you REALLY want?” and, “Do you have a dream?” Most of the time the girls answer the question without telling me their real feelings because it is either embarrassing or they don’t want to upstage their classmates. Maybe they don’t know what passion feels like. Maybe they don’t know how bad it feels when you fail at something you love soooooo much. What is passion? My student writes, “My parents don’t care about me. My father is never home and my mother only cares about if I am studying or going to club activities. When I come home I go to my room . My friends live far away so I can’t see them. I talk to them on my cell phone as much as possible. The only time I can have fun is when I play basketball. I play basketball everyday. This Summer I practiced everyday for 5 hours. My team is not good but we have a lot of fun. We laugh a lot. I forget all my worries when I am with them. This is my third year in high school. I can not play basketball next year. I don’t want to stop. I want to leave my house and run away. I have a friend in Hokkaido. I want to stay with her to play basketball. What should I do?” I edited the article just a little. The point is that she, as well as many Japanese, have passion but don’t realize how strong it is because the seriousness of it is not discussed. Hiding these feelings of passion and love just means that recognizing them is that much more difficult. Are you willing to give up your life for someone? Passion? Love?
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2 Comments posted on "For K. Passion? Love?"
katsu on October 18th, 2007 at 12:00 am
Wow, now that was a depressing article…
The Warrior on October 18th, 2007 at 3:57 pm
That is one reason you have things like a teenager girl killing her father with an axe, liked what happened in Kyoto-Fu a few weeks ago. Sad… You must be logged in to post a comment. |
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