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Do western women understand a man’s desires more than a Japanese woman? Or do American men just want it more? And do women understand that we run a higher risk of getting prostate cancer if we don’t have sex? Would it be a problem if I were to take care of my urge, and my prostate, outside of our marriage? I don’t. The way I see it, we are simply animals who desire to run at times. A man feels the compelling surge of hormones that drives us to attack. When we reach 40, that urge is noticed more and more because it’s happening less and less frequently. Why is it happening less frequently? Japanese women probably yern for “touch” a lot more than western women, but western women know what to do when they are touched. This means that western men in Japan must be the toucher, which isn’t much fun. We touch, they don’t know what to do when we touch them. I’m not getting the urge anymore.
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11 Comments posted on "I can’t wait for sex"
ongaku on January 25th, 2007 at 9:24 am
I’m sure most guys who read this will say sure, you’re a male and it’s a primal urge that can’t be suppressed. Maybe I’m in the minoritiy but I think being a stay at home Mom is exhausting so her energy/interest in sex will come and go in waves. Going through a draught shouldn’t affect your bond or feelings for each other. It’s more problematic if there’s emotional distance, which you will no doubt create if you get caught satifying your urge outside the marriage. Try self-servicing your prostate and being supportive when she’s stresssed, and see if that helps increase the frequency. If not then maybe you are not cut out for marriage - not everyone is. On the other hand if your wife puts up with it then what the hell, enjoy! Most women would cut off your nuts and take 50% of everything, but maybe its different in Japan.
Zen on January 25th, 2007 at 11:10 am
men feel closer more intimite with their partner after sex, a woman needs to feel closer/intimite to have sex… It gets more complex as we get older… Marriage is life biggest challage… Sometimes you have to give to recieve…as ongaku says As the marriage gets older and us, different skills and awareness is needed, on both sides. Going outside the “wa” only makes things more complex. Here is something to think on. When Japanese recieve a gift, it is their nature to return a gift…when it is a gift of money they return half of it in a gift… “Try a little tenderness”..Otis Redding
shoofly on January 25th, 2007 at 12:50 pm
crazy, never go outside a marriage to try help the sex of your marriage thats one baaaaad and super non helpful idea sex is awesome people who are married should be able to have the best sex ever and practice all the time and just go at it untill they are physically incapable of doing it till like maybe their 80’s but still hey if you can still get it going then why not? but unlikely- anyways A man i guess might look for other options if he is not appreciated in the sack by his wife (women too) maybe a bit lonely- but im an optimist theres ALWAYS a way theres really no need to go elsewhere just -grr i don’t know how to convey what to do grr im mega passionate about married people having good blimmin sex lol theres just no reason to let the sex slide! my apologies for this ramble but i love sex its the best thing ever…can’t fathom letting sex go…. so if a japanese lady likes to be touched but doesn’t know what to do afterwards? why not show them? or at least in the very nicest way tell them…would that go down badly? women are easy you just have to put in oodles of ‘feeling/emotional’ effort in to make them feel ’special’ and ‘precious’- if you do you can get whatever you want without having to ask
Mike on January 25th, 2007 at 10:07 pm
Before I go into this any further, I’d like to hear what a normal routine is. For example; kiss, touch, oral, sex. Or maybe it’s hug, spoon, touch, wait, kiss, sex. Or finally, maybe it’s Grunt, suck, fuck. Your input before I say anything more forfear I am telling her friends too much information when they read this blog.
ongaku on January 26th, 2007 at 12:50 am
I see where you are coming from, but don’t you live in a small condo with a 7 year old sleeping in the same room? Get Grandma to watch Kai, take her out for a romantic dinner (not ramen or yakitori) and reconnect. Tell her what a great mother, cook, partner she is. Reiminsce about the early days when you first started dating. Go to a love hotel and take it slowly and gently - and as shoofly says above, you’ll “do what you want without having to ask.”
Zen on January 26th, 2007 at 5:19 am
Yup, I agree, There was a old saying when I was young, Do not stop treating your wife, like she is your girl friend. Plan a couple of days attack. One day lots of hugs and kisses, bu tnot too much. Next day, Massage, back and feet more hugs, tell/show how much you enjoy being with her. Day 3 out to dinner, drinks, love motel, Massage with hands and mouth, , She should be ready by then. Then Control, do not just jump on it and bang bang, Take your time…savor
shoofly on January 26th, 2007 at 7:14 am
Also if say people have a day off and their children are in school…take that day to a love hotel and have some fun or just stay at home and bang As for routines it depends on the enviroment plus the word routine sort of -well sounds boring - but for generalisations sake theres days when your in the car and you think- hey i want a peice now so you drive off to random outskirts place (probably not doable in Japan??),then theres days when your tired but you still want to do something nice so you just stick to the orally stuff- but the main thing is to approach sex on the whole as ‘right today we are going to Fk at least once and its going to be awesome’ then make it happen Its good for the health
Zen on January 27th, 2007 at 10:24 am
Shoofly:
shoofly on January 27th, 2007 at 12:58 pm
yeah harder to actually do…
Pandesal on February 4th, 2007 at 11:14 pm
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